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A Bike Tour of Khao Sam Roi Yot National Park | Hua Hin, Thailand

Things I should have left in the bus: My sunglasses. My camera. My phone.

Things I should have brought with me: My new Gortex jacket. A dry bag.

We’d only just started to walk up the long path when it started to rain. Really rain. Wet rain. Thick, heavy droplets of the stuff. Within minutes we were in the state that comes after soaking. I couldn’t keep my eyes open as my contact lenses swam around my sockets. I zipped up my camera bag up and held it close, but it’s water resistant, not waterproof, and resistant just wasn’t enough. I was worried. We found a few plastic bags and put our cameras and phones in them, then huddled under a few trees and waited for it to pass.

It was fun. Genuinely.

It was part of a fantastic day – a day that reminded me why I love travelling so damn much: I was pushed out of my comfort zone, I met some lovely new people, I saw some incredible sights, and I laughed when things went a bit tits up.

Plus getting drenched in 30 degrees is much more pleasant than in 2 degrees!

I was on a tour with Hua Hin Bike Tours around a National Park close to the city: Khao Sam Roi Yot. The names translates as “the mountain with three hundred peaks” and is in reference to the towering limestone outcrops which form the landscape of the park, along with beaches and coastal marshlands.

I was joined on the tour by a family from Utah, who are currently living in Shanghai, and a lady from Korea. We were picked up from our respective hotels and driven the hour or so to the park.

We pulled in at the base of Khao Daeng, a tall limestone mountain that offers spectacular views in exchange for a steep, sweaty 45 minute climb. And the views really were spectacular. On one side is a flat basin, its freshwater marshes neatly divided into rectangular shrimp farms, the thin layer of water on their surface reflecting the sky like a mirror. And beyond, the Gulf of Thailand. On the other are other high limestone outcrops carpeted in dense green forest. Breathtaking.

Khao Daeng Viewpoint

The peak of Khao Daeng.

Once back down we mounted our bikes and cycled to a group of red and gold Chinese temples, nestled against craggy mountains, their ornate detail contrasting with the rough surfaces surrounding them. There was something sort of other-wordly about them, a thought which kept coming back to me throughout the day.

Khao Sam Roi Yot National Park Chinese Temples

Chinese Temples in Khao Sam Roi Yot National Park

Then, after a quick stop for coffee, a much longer ride. The smooth, flat tarmac roads that wind their way across the stunning landscape were perfect for cycling.

As we arrived at Sam Phraya Beach the storm was coming in. To be fair, the weather was mostly perfect for cycling that day – if it had been hot and sunny we would have struggled I think. Our bikes were packed away, and we headed off around the side of a mountain on foot. It was here that the rain came down. After it has lighten up somewhat we walked on. The path led down to a wide beach framed with pine trees, the scent of their needles mingling with sea salt, a smell which reminded me strongly of Holkham beach in Norfolk, near where my parents live.

Sam Phraya Beach

Sam Phraya Beach

At the other end of the beach was a path leading upwards to the park’s main draw: Phraya Nakhon Cave. The cave was dry, despite the rain, and the smell of dust mingled with that of the wet earth around it. Formed from two sinkholes, who’s roofs have collapsed allowing light in, they’re eerie, quiet places. Stalactites fall from the roofs like waterfalls, and jungle trees grow thin and tall up towards the light.

And in the middle of the second cave is a stunning royal sha-lah (meeting hall). It looks so incongruous in its setting that it was almost like a film set. It was built in 1890 for King Rama V, and has been visited by every Thai king since. The best time to visit is apparently between 10.30am and 11.30am when the light pours in on it from above.

Phraya Nakhon Cave

Phraya Nakhon Cave

Back on the beach, we tucked into a late lunch: crab with yellow curry, tom yam soup with seafood, fried sweet and sour fish and minced chicken salad. It was all delicious!

I had such a good day with Hua Hin Bike Tours. Our guide was Gae, who runs the company along with her American husband Chris. She was fantastic – funny and charming – and we all felt very well looked after (and she didn’t show me any snakes, bonus points). The minibus followed us on our bikes, providing support and somewhere for us to leave the majority of our stuff as we rode. We were also given water, and at each stop two massive boxes of delicious pineapple and watermelon were brought out. They also do a great deal of charity work, organising fundraising cycle rides.

The tour of Khao Sam Roi Yot is just one of the day trips Hua Hin Bike Tours offers, there are much easier ones along the coast, to Hua Hin vineyard, and even one which makes it’s way back from the Myanmar boarder. They also run multi-day trips, one of which I’m keen to do at some point. I really recommend them.

Cost: 2,950 THB/Person

A Postcard from Kuala Lumpur

I love an underdog. I really do. I love rooting for the one no one thinks will make it. Supporting those others don’t.

And if there was ever an underdog city, it’s Kuala Lumpur. It’s not that people hate it, it’s more that people just don’t seem to love it. It’s the mousey girl at school who everyone knows the name of, but no one knows anything about (me). When I spoke to other travellers about Kuala Lumpur before visiting, most people replied with a shrug and an “It’s alright. Not much to do. Go to Penang”. Ah dear, Penang, the good-looking, swishy haired girl who was always hockey team captain, and seemed to have her pick of the best looking guys in school. Everyone knows EVERYTHING about her. Everyone LOVES her.

China Town Kuala Lumpur

China Town streets in Kuala Lumpur

So I wanted to love it, I really did, I wanted to find her inner sparkle and give her a little push forward. I gave her a good shot, spending five nights there (although to be fair one of those was at the heavenly Villa Samadhi, so I didn’t do much, ok any, sightseeing for a day and a half at least – full review coming). But if you were to ask me my opinion of Kuala Lumpur now, I’m afraid I would shrug along with everyone else. I’m sorry KL.

It’s hard to pinpoint why I’m so apathetic towards Kuala Lumpur because in truth it has a lot of things I love in cities. The people are friendly and kind. I got smiled at and wished “good morning” the entire time. When I needed help with finding places people were always happy to stop and point me in the right direction. I found a very good flat white on my first morning in the city, at a lovely, cool little coffee shop that was just the sort of place I coo over (VCR). It’s a real cauldron of cultures and ethnicities. Malay, Indian and Chinese all rub along together, and the parts of the city they claim as their own are vibrant and feel like real slices of their homelands. Everything is within walking distance, and if you are in a rush there is a fantastic public transport system, including a monorail which looks like the future. I had some good food, although nothing outstanding, and there is certainly plenty to choose from. And I had a lovely afternoon exploring the Islamic Art and Architecture Museum which has a room full of models of mosques from all over the world which I found fascinating.

KL 4

There was also one thing about the city that I did really, really love: the architecture. It’s the first Muslim South-East Asian country I’ve been to, and the thin, elegant minarets along the skyline, and curvaceous Mosque domes were a lovely change of pace from the sometimes somewhat gaudy Buddhist temples of Myanmar and Thailand. I also loved the tatty, once brightly painted, shopfront houses of China Town and the surrounding streets. But it was the modern architecture I really adored. I loved how certain buildings seemed to speak to the older buildings, picking up their materials and motifs, and using them in a modern, almost abstract, way. It was as if the buildings were in conversation with each other. For example, the modern box-like building at the back of this photo is clad in the same copper as the domes of the Sultan Abdul Samad Buidling at the front. And the curved arches of the Dayabumi complex mirror those of the National Textile Museum in front of it. The buildings don’t just sit next to each other in class, they’re actual friends (ok, this is the end of the school metaphor I promise).

KL 1

And another one… The smooth curved arches of this high-rise… #VSCOcam

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The Petronas Towers were also pleasantly surprising. They were more elegant and refined than I had been expecting; the metal is muted rather than shiny, and up close you can see the Art Deco influence in the details which reminded me strongly of New York skyscrapers. There is also something really special about finally standing in front of a landmark like that, and seeing it with your own eyes rather than through someone else’s. I definitely had a ‘yes, wow, I’m in Malaysia’ moment.

Petronas Towers

The view from the Petronas Towers, and the towers themselves.

But despite this, the city feels very unfinished. Sights might be small distances from each other but it is not a pleasant city to walk around. Very little attention has been paid to the street level in the city, the pavements break-up and peter out at will, and the roads are chocked with traffic.

Kuala Lumpur mosque

I really liked this matching mosque and residential building!

But my main issue with the city is that there just didn’t seem to be much meat on its bones. There wasn’t much to get my teeth into. After seeing the main sights, there didn’t seem to be much else to explore. I don’t have a long mental list of things I still want to see and do there. It wasn’t so much peeling an onion, as it was peeling an apple – the skin came off in one long strand and then that was it. Done. (I’m aware this isn’t the best metaphor I’ve ever used by the way, apologies).

Kuala Lumpur

Downtown KL

A lot of people describe Kuala Lumpur as boring, especially in comparison to Bangkok, and I think most of this comes from its lacklustre nightlife. I’m not really in a position to comment (9pm? Oh gosh, I’d better go to bed!) but the city is definitely lacking in energy. Maybe its the humidity but it feels a little lethargic, as if its just woken up after a heavy night out. It felt like a city that follows rather than paves the way, that goes through the motions rather than drives itself forward. I can’t imagine ever wanting to spend that much time there, sadly.

So I’m really sorry Kuala Lumpur, but *shrugs*.

A few other initial thoughts on Malaysia: 
  • Jesus there are a lot of palm trees everywhere.
  • It uses three pin plugs – hooray! No more dangling adaptors.
  • Another palm tree! I mean are there any other sorts of trees here?
  • It feels much cheaper than Thailand. Guidebooks which say it’s pricier are out of date. The ringgit has fallen in recent months and you get a lot for your money. Eating is particularly cheap.
  • There’s a whole forest of palm trees over there!
  • Oh, and if you’re feeling sorry for class Malaysia (ok, I really am done with the school metaphor now), I LOVED Melaka and Penang, more on both soon.

A Cool and Contemporary Homestay in Bangkok | Loog Choob | Homestay Review

So far this is the only place that I have been back to – I think that says a lot! It’s where I chose for Bella and I to stay when she came to Bangkok for the weekend. This was partly because of how much I love this homestay, and partly because of the location – which is really good for sightseeing, if you don’t mind walking a bit (we don’t).

Overview:

Occupying one of a row of unattractive, concrete 1960s shopfront houses along a canal just east of Banglumpu, Loog Choob is a stylish, contemporary homestay with just five rooms. A loog choob is actually a sort of Thai sweet, but when pronounced slightly differently it also means “reborn child”. Sukanya and her brother inherited the house and shop from their parents, but decided to convert it into something completely different but something that still remains true to the building’s heritage. Sukanya’s brother is an architect and he oversaw the redesign; his attention to detail and love of the building is very clear to see. It’s original and lovely, and just a very easy place to stay.

loog choob homestay lobby

The lobby at Loog Choob Homestay

 Location Location Location:

The area itself might not be all that special, but Loog Choob only a 15 minute walk away from Golden Mount, and the other big sights of Bangkok Old Town. It’s also the same distance walk to a canal boat dock – these boats, which speed up and down the canal, are the perfect way to get to the shopping district of Sukhumavit. You can also get motorbike taxis very easily on the street outside, and, with a bit of patience, tuk-tuk and car taxis as well.

There are a few good places to eat nearby. Just opposite is Nang Loeng market which is famous for its sweets, and I had a fantastic bowl of roasted duck and crab noodles there as well. There is also an amazing street seafood seller on the corner. She’s ridiculously grumpy, and you have to get there early (about 5.30 / 6pm) to stand a chance of getting any of the good stuff, but her tom yam, with its thick rings of fresh squid and pungent broth, and BBQed mussels are exceptionally good.

Seafood street vendor

The BBQed mussels. Delicious!

Come on in:

The overhanging shopfront area is filled with lush plants, and you enter into a cool, double height atrium with classical music playing quietly in the background, and books and other artefacts filling a glass cabinet along one wall. It’s lovely, a little retro, and very peaceful. The owners have an interest in modern art and there are gorgeous paintings propped up and hung everywhere. There are many communal areas throughout the building, including a stunning roof terrace with views over the city and two little nooks stuffed with beanbags for relaxing on. The perfect place to watch the sunset.

The roof terrace at Loog Choob

The view from the roof terrace.

On arrival at Loog Choob you’re given your own keycard to let yourself in and out, and Sukanya will sit down with you and go through everything, answering any questions you might have. She’s cleverly anticipated travellers’ needs, and will give you printouts of a map of the local area marked with places to eat, a wider map showing you how to get to the main sights, a list of popular places to go translated into both Thai and Chinese so you can point at them to taxi drivers (ridiculously useful), and another one with detailed directions back to Loog Choob written in Thai. So helpful! After that she is always around, as is her father, and more than happy to help, but she isn’t at all interfering (something I’ve struggled with at other homestays – stop telling me where to go and what to do – I’m an independent woman!)

This is your room:

Bright, simple and eat-off-it clean. I had the same room on both occassions, the overly large double bed was split into two when Bella was with me. I liked the bright blue wall with flashes of orange, and the functional-first design of the room. It felt more Ikea than Conran Shop stylish, but was still a lovely, calming place to stay. There’s a balcony with windows looking out onto the street so you can either open them to have a steamy outdoor area (sliding doors will keep your actual room cool), or keep them close and allow the air-con to penetrate through. The double glass also keeps street noise out at night. There’s a useful shelf above the small fridge (complimentary water) to put your bag, and a few hangers for your fancy clothes as well. The air-con was powerful and kept the room pretty much constantly below 20 degrees. Upstairs are two suites – one junior and one family – sharing a lovely living room. Both would be perfect for families, or couples wanting a bit more space and a bathtub.

Room at Loog Choob Homestay

My room at Loog Choob

Bedtime:

Cool, comfortable and quiet – I slept well here.

Getting clean:

The bathroom runs down one side of the room with opaque glass separating it from the bedroom area. Shampoo and shower gel are provided and there are two shower heads – one rain and one direct to choose from. My only gripe was that it wasn’t particularly private – fine when I was on my own, slightly annoying when with Bella. You can hear everything, and the door handles are oval cut-outs from the glass which means you have to be careful where you stand!

Loog choob homestay bathroom

My sink.

 How do you like your eggs in the morning?

Breakfast isn’t provided as such, but there are containers of cereal, and other snacks you can help yourself to in the little communal kitchen, along with tea, coffee and hot chocolate. In addition there are a selection of baked goods put out every morning, and there is a chest freezer stocked with little pots of ice-cream and a couple of ready-meals you can purchase. If you fancy something else there is a Chinese place just around the corner where you can buy steamed buns and iced tea from.

Hell is other people. Apparently.

I didn’t really see that many other people there to be honest! I met just one young couple on holiday, but from reading reviews it seems the place attracts a real mixture of people.

Loog Choob Homestay view

Another shot from the roof of Loog Choob

Anything else:

There is a washing machine you can use (I hadn’t done my own washing in months – I baulked slightly – but figured it out!), and drying racks on your balcony. Make sure you book – with so few rooms she does get busy during peak season.

Loves:

The roof terrace. Sukanya. The attention to detail and travellers’ needs.

Niggles:

The bathroom not being particularly private. That there is no single discount.

Best for:

Flash-packing couples. Anyone wanting to stay somewhere a bit quieter in Bangkok but still with easy access to the big sights. Anyone who really loves seafood.

Final Verdict:

I really loved this place, and would happily go back yet again.

The Damage:

2100 bhat a night for a double or twin room. The two suites are 3600 and 4400 bhat respectively. The place is also on Airbnb.

Loog Choob website. 

A Tour of Inle Lake | Thoughts on Sustainability

A red and blue school bag hanging from a wooden post, reflected in the water. A woman, squatting on one of the wooden steps leading from the water up to her house, washing plates in a pale blue plastic bowl. The sound of pop music wafting in and out of earshot with the breeze. A tiny boy, standing at one end of a long wooden boat, carefully rowing between the houses. A man leaning over the side of his boat to trim his floating plants.

Inle Lake floating village

A floating village on Inle Lake

It was these everyday sights, these familiar things done in an unfamiliar setting, that I really loved about my boat tour of Inle Lake. There are only a few temples in the area to visit, a few markets, it’s seeing how life is lived on the water that draws people to the area. Yet even as I was appreciating all of this, I was aware that there was something off about the experience, something that was making me feel uncomfortable.

The whole purpose of travel, for me anyway, is to see how other people live their lives. There is nothing I love more than exploring an area of a city where people actually live and go about their daily lives; seeing where they shop, where they meet with friends, and where they live. Yet it is one thing for me to be quietly strolling streets, cup of coffee in one hand smiling and chatting to people, and quite another to be sat in one of the hundreds of boats which leave Nyangshwe harbour every morning, unable to interact at all with those I was observing.

Pretty much everyone who comes to the area does a boat tour of the lake at some point, and they are all very similar. They cover the same sort of sights, just in a slightly different order. They all cost the same – 18000 kyat for a boat which seats up to five people – and can be arranged through your guesthouse, or you can just go to the jetty at 8 / 8.30 in the morning and commandeer one.

I remember sitting up in bed the night before, looking at my Lonely Planet Guide to Myanmar, inside of which is a photograph of a fisherman on Inle Lake, rowing in the unique Intha-style: one leg wrapped around the ore, driving it through the water in a smooth motion. I thought how much I would love to get a similar photo, but I doubted there would be many, and as I don’t have a long lens on my camera I didn’t fancy my chances. How wrong was I! As we powered from the canal into the wider lake the next morning we were met by five or six fisherman, all dressed in traditional clothes, rowing with their legs. And they were all doing it purely for the sake of the tourists. Our boat pulled up alongside one. He rowed a few times with his legs so we could get a photo, then he crouched down and held up a fish that had clearly been out of the water for a while. Photos once again taken, he held out his hand for money.

It’s a tricky one. He clearly makes more money doing this than actually fishing, and you can’t judge him for that. He’s fulfilling a demand which is very much there – almost entrepreneurially. But it made me feel very uncomfortable – to have something that was once a natural part of their culture being played out as a sort of stage-show for tourists. I have a rule that I only take photographs of people I have had some sort of engagement with – be it a hello, a wave or eye contact at the very least – some sort of acquiescence from them that they don’t mind me taking their photo. But I couldn’t catch his eye, and aware there was only a limited time to do so – I took some photos without it. Yet while I may have got the shot I was after, they’re not photos I’m proud of.

Fisherman on Inle Lake

Intha fisherman on Inle Lake

Money exchanged, our boat sped up again, heading to the far south of the lake. The journey might have taken an hour, it might have taken two; I had very little idea of time. At the start the sky and the lake were the same hue of silver grey, both immaculately smooth, blending into one another with just a thin, barely distinguishable line the only indicator of where one ended and the other began. The mountains were just a hazy outline, off to one-side and in the distance: a cut-out of slightly darker paper pasted onto the sky. The throb of the engine drowned out all other noise, and spray fanned around us. It was chilly, we wrapped the tartan blankets provided over our knees.

Inle Lake in the early morning

Inle Lake in the early morning

The smoothness began to be broken by long, thin sticks, standing upright out of the water. Chunks of thick weed floated past. Then, as the sun rose that little bit higher, as quickly as if someone had flicked a switch, everything came into colour. Things that had appeared washed out and faded a few minutes before were suddenly shockingly bright. Lime green reed floated on the lake’s surface, which had darkened, turning into a metallic gunmetal grey. The sky meanwhile had softened into Babygro blue. Men, in red jumpers, purple shirts, brown trousers, leaned out of equally bright painted boats to gather up the reed. Bright painted clapboard houses appeared, standing on stilts in the water. The landscape went from something mythical and serene, to one full of life and energy, and very real.

People on Inle Lake

People on Inle Lake

Eventually we pulled in alongside a row of other boats, on the edge of the five-day market at Thung That. It was ringed with stalls selling wares for tourists, but walk a little further in, and you found piles of clothes, men having hair cuts, and a lady selling fantastic deep-fried spring onions, which she handed to you on a plastic sheet, piping hot.

Thung That Market

Thung That Market and the Shan stupas.

Back in the boat, we headed around the southern edge of the lake to a silk and lotus weaver. Lotus weaving is one of the most labour-intensive ways of making fabric, more so than even cashmere or the finest of silks, and its price reflects this. Lotuses grow in abundance in the freshwater of Inle Lake, and locals believe that the calm and meditative characteristics of the plant transfer over to the wearer – which is why it is used for Buddhist monks’ robes. The plants are harvested just after the monsoon, the stalks stripped off, and then the porous fibres from these twisted and rolled together with water to produce a thread. It’s fascinating to watch, the girls’ hands rocking backwards and forwards in a rhythmic manner. Its natural colour is a soft, earthy beige, but dyes made from tree bark, fruit and flowers are also used. The end products are stunning, but sadly beyond my budget (we were left in a room of scarfs etc. at the end of the tour, although there was very little pressure to buy. I’m guessing they only need to sell a few items a day to make a profit).

Weaving at Inle Lake

Weaving at Inle Lake

After lunch at a restaurant perched over the water on stilts, we were taken to see two other trades – a boat builder and a cheroot maker, both traditional crafts – and then onto a temple. It was after this that we went to the one place that tipped over for me from slightly squirmy, to properly uncomfortable. We were told only that we were visiting the ‘long-necked ladies’, but were given very little idea of the context. Perhaps I should have deduced from his phrasing that it wasn’t going to be a particularly positive experience. We were dropped off at a shop, and walked inside. It was full of crafts from the area, and at one side, two ladies – one young and one old – were sat weaving. They both had on the thick, heavy brass neck rings of the Padaung tribe, a sub-group of the Karen people. There was something horribly zoo-like about it. They are clearly paid to be there purely for people to look at. We walked around the shop, sneaking glances, unsure how to deal with the situation. I went up to both and tried chatting to them. They spoke very little English, and seemed reticent. Perhaps they are simply bored of foreigners asking the same questions – Is it heavy? How long have you had it for? I asked to take their picture and they simply nodded.

Padding women weaving

Padaung women weaving.

Again this is not a simple thing to unpick. The neck rings are a part of traditional Padaung culture, although there doesn’t seem to be a consensus on what they are actually for – some say it is to make the women less attractive to other tribes, and some to make them more attractive to their own tribe, and some even as a protection from tiger bites! It is also a tradition that is waning, and tourist interest is certainly keeping it alive. But is this good thing? I’m really not convinced. While I don’t want to judge, the rings look horrifically uncomfortable – they work not by lengthening the neck as many believe, but by pushing down the collar-bone, and when worn for many years, weaken the muscles to the extent that the woman cannot keep her own head upright without them. Girls are also forced into them from as young as five years old; it is definitely not a decision they are making themselves. And I doubt that it is the women who are capitalising on the tourist interest, it is the men who own the shops, and the villages where they live, that do so. The whole experience left me with a bitter taste in my mouth, and I felt guilty for having gone along with it, and not questioning our guide more.

After the shop we went to Nga Hpe Kyaung, otherwise known as Jumping Cat Monastery, although there were sadly no jumping cats on our visit. On our way back to Nyangshwe we drifted around the floating gardens – long wooden trellises of fruit and vegetables – supported by floating mats of vegetation.

I ended the tour with very mixed feelings. The parts of the tour that I enjoyed the most were those where we got a glimpse into the lives of those who live on this lake. One of things I love about Myanmar culture is that everything is so open – people wash themselves outside, doors are always ajar, and the streets are always full of people chatting. But I wonder whether this will continue. It seems to me there is something very different about being seen by your neighbours who are also doing the same thing, and being watched by boatloads of strangers, many with big cameras, recording your private moments for their own pleasure.

I should also probably mention the impact on the fragile Inle Lake ecosystem. I’m by no means an expert on this, but the sudden arrival of hundreds of petrol-powered boats every morning must surely have an effect. Many people still make their living from the lake and its natural products – lotus flowers, weed, etc. and I would hate to see these businesses suffer for the sake of tourism.

I also struggled to get my head around the price – 18000kyat is about £11 – so about £2 each! Is that a sustainable price? Surely the cost of petrol is at least half that? It seems to me to be one set by the tourists rather than a realistic assessment of what the tour is actually worth.

To me, the way in which boat trips are run in Inle Lake shows just how young the tourism industry is here. There aren’t really any other options if you want to see the lake, at least not at the budget / mid-range end of the market, and it seems to be very much a reaction to consumer desires rather than a proactive, thought-out, way of showing visitors the very best of the area. It’s a real shame, as Inle Lake is probably one of the most unique places I’ve ever been to.

Where I stayed: 

La Maison Birmane: Full review of this gorgeous, French-owned boutique hotel in Nyangshwe. Short version: It’s lovely. Stay.

Aquarius Inn: I think I would have liked this place more if I’d had a nicer room. I couldn’t get an air-con one, so only had a fan and my room was small, hot and I struggled to keep the mosquitos out. There were nice communal areas though, and I chatted to quite a few people, plus I joined two couples from the guesthouse on the tour talked about above. The family who run it are lovely, and the bathrooms are kept very clean. Breakfast was pancakes, and they repeatedly ask if you’d like another, so you can definitely eat your full!

Twin Room with Fan: $12, Aquarius Inn website.

Where I ate: 

I have to admit that I didn’t find much decent food in Nyangshwe. I ended up eating the same street food snack a couple of nights running, the name of which translates to ‘husband and wife’. I can’t remember exactly where I got them from – so just look out for this lady!

Nyangshwe Street Food

What Else I Did:

I hired a bike and cycled to Red Mountain Estate vineyard, which was a lovely afternoon trip! I went the long way round, stopping off at Shwe Yaunghwe Kyaung, a beautiful ancient teak monastery. Make sure you check your bike carefully before hiring though, some are rather old and misfunctioning to say the least!

Shwe Yaunghwe Kyaung monastery.

Shwe Yaunghwe Kyaung monastery, and the surrounding rice paddies at sunset.

I got the train to nearby Shwenyaung from Kalaw which I highly recommend.

Have you taken a tour of Inle Lake, what did you think of it? Have you ever done a tour you’ve been uncomfortable with? I’d love to hear from you if so! 

The Hardest Days of Solo Travel | Travel Diary

The last couple of days have been tough. And not for any particular reason really. But this is something I’m realising about solo travel: it’s not the days when something, or everything, is going wrong that are the toughest. I can cope with those days. I dig deep. I batter up. I go into auto-pilot. Something needs sorting, and I’m bloody well going to sort it. They’re the days I feel strong. Brave. When I know I can do this.

No, it’s the days when nothing is going wrong, but I just feel, well, a bit weepy, that are the hardest. A few things might be niggling me, but I’m essentially fine. I’m just struggling and I feel like I shouldn’t be. Days when I really, really, just want a hug from a good friend, or my mum, and someone to take the reins for a while. When I just want someone else to find something to eat, somewhere to stay, or decide what to do next. I’m just tired of having to do it by myself all the time.

Because it’s this constant decision making that I find the most tiring aspect of solo travel. I was struggling to identify that this was what it was that was making me feel so drained, when I got the most amazing email from Rebecca (The Runaway Kiwi – please read her blog if you don’t already. She’s funny. A little awkward. And just a great writer.). She somehow managed to identify EXACTLY what was getting me down, and say EXACTLY what I needed to hear. I’m going to quote her:

Its exhausting. I know what it’s like, even if you are having an amazing day it’s you that has to find a place to eat, it’s you that has to figure the map out, it’s you that has to approach strangers, it’s you that has to push for the next thing to do. Solo is the most amazing thing in the world because it lets you be a selfish traveler, but it is just damn hard work.

And she’s so right. I’d been beating myself up a bit. Getting annoyed at myself that I was so behind with blogging (I’m still on Myanmar for Christ sake!), and feeling like I wasn’t travelling quite as “well” as I should be. She reminded me that it’s okay if sometimes just the travelling side of what I’m doing is enough. If sometimes the blogging, and writing, and sharing on social media takes a back seat. Sometimes the only way I can keep my donkey upright is by just forgetting everything else and focusing on getting to the end of the day in one piece.

So since then (a month or so ago), I’ve been trying to go a bit easier on myself, but it doesn’t always stop the blues. I’d been feeling down the last couple of days for a number of reasons – PMT mainly if I’m honest, and the fact that it was a friend’s hen weekend in London, and I wasn’t there. And I got an email which irked me. And I was just feeling a bit, well, lonely. I’ve been spending a lot of time in front of my laptop recently, and not staying at particularly sociable guesthouses or going on tours. I’ve been enjoying it, it’s been nice slowing down a little and writing everyday. But then I realised that I hadn’t had a proper conversation with someone for over a week. I think I just need to feel a bit of a connection. I need to take my own solo travel advice.

I call them teary days, as that’s basically what they are. I’m just on the edge of tears. Someone will be slightly short with me, or not particularly helpful, and I’ll feel tears well up behind my eyes. Someone will say something nice to me on Twitter, and they’ll sprout forth.

Essentially, I’m being pathetic.

But when I shared how I was feeling on Twitter and Instagram I got so many messages from other solo travellers, mainly female, saying “yes, I know how you feel”, and “yes, I remember that emotion. It will pass, don’t worry”. I definitely don’t think I’m alone in having these days.

So I’m learning to deal with them. I’ll try to find myself a nice little coffee shop. I’ll step away from my laptop and towards my kindle, and get absorbed in a book for a while. I’ll do a couple of the joyful things on these lists. I’ve started listening to the Harry Potter audiobooks which are just comfort. And I’m going to try to find myself some knitting needles and wool. I only started knitting just before going away, and thought about bring them with me before deciding against it. Something I regret. Rather like listening to Gardener’s Question Time (yes, yes, I know I’m going on 40), I find it’s impossible to feel anxious or upset with clacking needles in hand.

And while my natural reaction when feeling like this is to close myself off, I’m going to try to force myself to open up. To smile at other people in coffee shops. To start conversations and to see what happens.

But sometimes you just have to wait to wake up one morning feeling better. As I did this morning. I got up as the sun as rising and walked out to the suburbs of Georgetown and a little kopitiam (old-style coffee shop with stalls selling different foods around the edge) I’d been recommended. I had the most amazing apom manis, fermented coconut pancakes baked in clay pots. I had a cup of tea. I decided to explore two nearby Buddhist temples. I walked to the Botanic Gardens, getting lost a little, but getting help from strangers to find my way. I explored the gardens. I got rained on. I sheltered in a pagoda with a lovely Chinese couple who firmly told me not to say I was 29 years old (even though I am), but to say I was 30 instead, as that brings good luck and 29 definitely doesn’t. I got the bus back to town. I chatted to a lady on that. She told me I was very brave for travelling alone. People quiet often do, and I normally just shrug, but this time I replied: ‘yes, I am brave’.

*Cover photo of street art in Penang. More on that coming soon!

AriyasomVilla Bangkok | A beautiful and relaxing 1940s Villa | Boutique Hotel Review

Whenever I’m shown my room at a hotel I classify as a “treat night”, I always try to act nonchalant. I arrange my face into one that says “oh, I stay in these places all the time” (I hope). “It has its own private plunge pool? Sure. Two sinks? Well that’s just to be expected really. There’s a minibar. Hmm, looks decent enough.”

Meanwhile the voice in my head goes something like this:

“OH MY GAWD THIS PLACE IS GORGEOUS. WHAT THE HELL AM I MEANT TO DO WITH A PLUNGE POOL? IT HAS A MINIBAR? SCREW THE BOOZE –  THERE ARE MARS BARS! OH EM GEEEE.”

I wait for the attendant to leave then I run excitedly around the room, opening all the cupboards, smelling the free bottles of shampoo and shower gel (and get VERY excited if there is a pot of moisturiser), and snuggle up in the bathrobe, even if it means setting the air-con to Arctic.

But when I was shown my room at AriyasomVilla Bangkok, I really struggled to keep my nonchalant face on. I think I might even have let out a little squeal when I saw the bathroom. It was that good.

Overview:

A calm and relaxing sanctuary in the middle of bustling Bangkok, the perfect place to retire to when the city gets too hot and heavy. AriyasomVilla was built in 1942 by the current owner’s grandparents, and it still carries an air of this era. During the redesign (it opened as a hotel in 2008) only quality local and recycled materials were used, and it was beautifully done. I particularly loved the lush tropical gardens, and how it is so enchantingly Thai it felt. And if you can bring yourself to leave the beautiful hotel grounds, you’re only a short walk from the BTS, and in the middle of cool Sukhumvit with plenty of shops and restaurants. The hotel has 24 rooms, in four categories. I obviously stayed in one of the cheapest – a studio – which are mainly on the ground floor.

AriyasomVilla Bangkok

AriyasomVilla. Taken from near the pool.

 Come on in:

You enter into a little courtyard, protected from the road by a screen of frangipani, and shaded by an old, gnarled tree, wrapped in layers of lime silk fabric (something Thai people do if they believe a spirit lives inside). There are two antique rattan chairs with brightly coloured cushions on a veranda in front of French doors. Pale yellow walls, heavy polished carved wood doors and big, oversized jungle ferns mark the doorway to the Reception area. The greeting was warm and friendly, and despite the early hour (about 11am), I was able to check-in to my room straight away. The pool sits in the L-shaped crux of the two houses, its angular lines softened by greenery. A little shrine is tucked away in a corner. You can’t help but breathe a sigh of relaxation just at looking at it all.

AriyasomVilla Reception Area

The entrance

This is your room:

As you have probably gathered from above, it was lovely. Oh so lovely! A little on the dark side as it was at the back, but this meant it was pin-drop quiet, so I’ll allow it. The focal point of the room was a massive, dark wood bed with a smooth, curved headboard, and beautiful, warm earthy-coloured cushions and a throw. There was also a personalised welcome letter, printed on thick cream paper, and a little frangipani flower! French doors opened out on to my own private slice of terrace, but as it had no view I didn’t spend much time there. There was also a wooden desk and entertainment unit, hiding a TV although I didn’t switch it on, and a wardrobe with plenty of hanging space.

My room at AriyasomVilla.

My room at AriyasomVilla. Lovely.

AriyasomVilla Bedroom

I loved this tapestry cushion!

Bedtime:

Best sleep of the trip so far. Possibly even of my entire life. I woke up exceptionally refreshed. That was a good bed.

Getting clean:

A big deep bath. Shutters that open out to the bedroom (probably meant for naughtiness, I used it for listening to a wonderful episode of Strangers podcast (The Living Room – check it out) without getting my iPad wet). A pebbled floor. Fluffy towels. A little bowl of fresh purple frangipani floating in water. A powerful hot shower. A candle lit below a dish containing essential oils. Jasmine scented soap. Heaven.

AriyasomVilla bathroom

My bathroom. I don’t I’ll ever be satisfied with a bathroom that doesn’t contain a bowl of fresh frangipani ever again.

Service:

Fantastic. A few of the staff even learnt my name which was a really lovely touch. There’s something so nice about someone saying ‘Of course, Fiona’. And when I asked for directions to a coffee shop the man behind the desk Googled it for me, and then called them to double check which BTS station I had to go to. Faultless (and I’m fussy).

AriyasomVilla shrine

The little shrine.

 How do you like your eggs in the morning?

Breakfast was included and I had little doughnuts dipped in a lemon curd, and blueberry pancakes. Both were good, if not particularly memorable.

Dinnertime:

The hotel’s restaurant is Na Aroon which serves mostly organic vegetarian and fish dishes. I had the set menu (950bhat) which was delicious: deep-fried tuna balls and papaya salad, fresh seabass curry and mixed seafood, and fresh fruit in syrup. Although the highlight of the meal was eavesdropping on a particularly salacious conversation on the table next door! One of the joys of dinning alone.

Pampering:

There is an in-house spa which I obviously tried out for the sake of this blog. A hardship. I opted for the Thai massage followed by a hot compress (1200 bhat for 90 minutes). I was given fresh pyjama type things to wear, and was taken to an open deck overlooking the pool (the next day, while lounging, I kept hearing giggles and realise it was someone with ticklish feet having a massage!). The pleasure of a Thai massage is always in the afterwards rather than the during, but this one definitely hurt less than others I’ve had. The hot compress was rather like being given a sponge bath with hot tea, but very pleasant nonetheless! I had it at 5pm, and the early evening light was beautiful. I left feeling totally relaxed.

Anything else?

I woke up early to swim as the sun rose and had the pool all to myself. Recommended.

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Loves:

The pool. The spa. My bed. The design. The tree in the courtyard.  My bed. The shrine. The staff. The atmosphere. The bath. My bed. Can I just say everything?

Niggles:

There weren’t any bath salts! That’s it. Add bath salts and you’d be perfect.

Best for:

Anyone who wants to escape the sweaty streets of Bangkok for a while. Arriving here after a long international flight would also be a joy. My parents, if I can ever convince my mum to get on a plane. Anyone who likes really beautiful boutique hotels, because this is one of the best I’ve been to.

Final Verdict:

It’s Thailand straight out of the pages of Condé Nast Traveller. If I had the dosh, I would stay here always. Perfect.

The Damage:

6500 THB (about £130) for a studio for one night including breakfast. No single discount (*sad face*).

AriyasomVilla Website.

A bit out of your budget? How about this much more affordable, but just as stylish B&B? Not quite right? Don’t fret, I have more recommendations coming! 

Kalaw, Myanmar

Kalaw feels very much like an Alpine town. Only with temples tipped with gold. And monks in burgundy robes. And a few extra centimetres of mercury in the thermometer.

Ok, so it might not sound very Alpine-like, but trust me on this. The centre is ringed by chalet-like huts with wooden shutters and verandas, built on stilts dug deep into the hillside. The mountains are rolling and covered in a dense forest which gives them a blueish tinge. And in the mornings, with mist slung low on the ground and a definite nip in the air, it really wasn’t hard to imagine myself on an although different mountain range, on an altogether different continent.

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Kalaw in the early morning

The town was founded as a hill station by the British, a place to come and cool off when the heat and dust of the plains got too much. Yet while there are still some colonial buildings to be seen, their most lasting legacies are the descendants of the Nepalese Gurkhas and Indian Sikhs, Muslims and Hindus they brought to the area to build the railway line, connecting Kalaw to Thazi and the Rangoon to Mandalay mainline. Because of this the town has a very ethnically diverse population, and there are plenty of options if you don’t fancy any more Burmese food! (I didn’t).

Kalaw sits in the far westerly corner of Shan State, the largest state in Myanmar and one, unfortunately, plagued with political problems. There are several large armed groups that would like the state to gain independence from Myanmar, groups that are heavily involved in the narcotics trade and supported openly by China*. However, the pocket that Kalaw and Inle Lake inhabits is very peaceful, and tourists are kept away from any areas where there might be even a hint of trouble. However, while I was there fighting did resume, and I decided not to go to Hispaw, further to the north because of it.

Ma Hnin Si Cafe, Kalaw

I met this guy at Ma Hnin Si Cafe. Loved him!

Kalaw is essentially a trekking base, there is only a little of interest in the town itself to tourists. That being said I liked its laid-back atmosphere, bustling morning market and quiet, dusty streets. If you have the time climb up to Thein Taung Paya, just to the north of the town, It’s a beautiful, peaceful spot with incredible views of the mountains.

Kalaw market

Kalaw market

So, before I describe the trek that I did do, I should probably mention the trek that I didn’t. As I said here, almost everyone seems to trek from Kalaw to Inle Lake. I definitely met more people who had done it than hadn’t, and almost everyone who did said they enjoyed it. The only grumbles I heard were the temperature and unrelenting sun, and that the landscape gets a bit monotonous after a while. So why didn’t I? The honest answer is I was feeling a bit contrary! I don’t like doing what everyone else does. Plus when I went to talk to a guide about it, he said that most Westerners do it to lose weight, which instantly put me off, and made me feel quite sick at the thought of what he must think of us. Had it been a bit earlier in the year, and a little cooler, I might have considered it, but the thought of hiking in 35 degree heat for three days just wasn’t that appealing.

A note about the sustainability of the Kalaw to Inle Lake trek: from what I could gather, it isn’t, particularly. At the moment all the trekkers stay in the homes of locals, displacing many and forcing them to move elsewhere for the night. While most people who had done the trek said they barely saw any other groups, there are hundreds of people who do it every week, and many villages along the route have 10 or so people to stay every single night. The villagers are obviously rewarded for it, and it’s clearly financially beneficial but demand is outweighing supply, and a village is actually being constructed especially for foreigners along the route. I think the experience in a few years time will be very different.

So rather than do this, I decided to do a day trek in the surrounding mountains. I went with a company called Green Discovery, which my guesthouse recommended, and was taken by a guide called called Dee Paw. He is Nepalese and descended from a Gurkha who came to build the railway and settled in the area. A few years ago he converted from Hinduism to Buddhism, and his wife, also Nepalese, did the same. He supports his wife and children, and also his parents. He spoke a great deal about religion and why he had chosen Buddhism, and about his thoughts on Myanmar culture and politics. He was an excellent companion for the day!

Kalaw trekking

My guide, Dee Paw – he did have on the oddest outfit!

We left the town of Kalaw and trekked along the side of the mountains. The main export of the area used to be opium, but the area is now planted mainly with coffee and oranges instead. Neat terraces, with tiny little huts balanced next to them, appear on most hillsides. I had thought most of the farms would be subsistence, owned by a family and used to feed themselves, but apparently most of the land is owned by bigger collectives, and many of the farmers work for a very low wage. However, unlike in Cambodia, where big, foreign companies have bought up vast swathes of land for intensive farming (I say bought up, ‘acquired’ is probably a better word as they capitalised on the confusion over land ownership in the wake of the Khmer Rouge to gain land they had no right to – there is an excellent episode of Crossing Continents on this, here), the land is at least all owned by Myanmar people.

We stopped off at two Palaung villages, both of which were very quiet as the people were apparently practising for a festival in a few days time. Each had a monastery and a school, and lots of brightly painted houses. Dee Paw said the second village is wealthier than the first as apparently the men in the first like to gamble! I chatted to a couple of villagers, including two elderly women who were wearing the traditional dress, although not including the silver hoops they used to wear at their waist – they apparently had to be sold off.

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The Palaung villages, Viewpoint and the reservoir.

After lunch (chapati, smashed avocado and dhal at an little Indian cafe at Viewpoint) we descended back down through a dense forest. Dee Paw grew up playing in this wood so was full of information about the plants and trees and their medicinal properties, and stories about the naughty things him and his friends got up to! But there was a lot of ‘this used to grow’, and ‘this used to be’ in his language. The woodland is changing, it’s no longer abundant in herbs and vegetables, and a government sponsored dam has flooded a vast area of it.

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People working in the Palaung villages, and lunch!

I was back at my guesthouse at 3pm, having requested an earlier than normal start of 8.15am. Dee Paw really was a fantastic guide (he only does day trips, as he has to pick his daughter up from school on his motorbike), and I can’t recommend Green Discovery enough. They’re on Aung Chan Thar Street, which is the road leading down from Union Highway with Winner Hotel on the corner, or their website is www.greendiscoverymyanmar.com. The tour cost 19000MMK which included a single supplement (*grumbles*).

*This is a VERY simplistic description of a very complex problem, and one that I don’t fully understand.

Where I stayed

Nature Land 1 Guesthouse

Tucked up in the hills surrounding the town, but still only a 10 minute walk from the market (and an even quicker motorbike ride back up), I really loved this place. And it definitely felt very Alpine! My room was simple, but clean and comfortable. It didn’t have air-con but that is really not needed here. The bathroom was again basic, but clean and functioning. Sadly the view from my window was blocked by the house next door. The owners were really lovely and very helpful. Breakfast was a big thick hunk of a pancake, but it did the job! There are lots of gorgeous little outside tables and chairs to sit and read on as well. The only thing I didn’t like were the barking dogs on the route down to town!

Nature Land Guesthouse

Nature Land 1 Guesthouse

Trip Advisor link

$20 a twin room for single occupancy. 

Where I Ate

Seven Sisters (Thiri Gay Har Restaurant), Union Highway: Owned by the aunt of the lady who owns Nature Land 1. I had a lovely meal here but it is a slightly odd place – there are lots of little rooms, so it’s like have dinner in someone’s home. The strawberry lassi was particularly good.

Everest Nepali Food Centre, Aung Chan That St: I had a fantastic large thali here which was excellent value. It gets busy in the evening, so go early (about 6.30ish).

Poe Poe, Kone Thai St: A little bakery selling REAL COFFEE. There is nowhere to sit so you have to get it take away. Also sells pastries.

Ma Hnin Si Cafe, Bu Tar St: Excellent little pakoras and hot sweet tea. Nice place to sit outside in the sun and chat to the locals. I went back several times.

And another thing

Rather than walk I got the train to Inle Lake (or actually Shwenyaung, a half hour taxi ride to Nyangshwe) which I really recommend. The trains are an experience and anyone I know who did a longer journey got a slightly terrified look in their eyes when talking about it. But this journey is only 4 hours or so (we also had to wait for an extra hour for the train to actually arrive). It was slow and rocking, but the scenery was beautiful. As a foreigner you automatically get an upper-class ticket which separates you from the locals which is a shame. I had great fried bananas on the platform! It’s also ridiculously cheap at 1100MMK for the journey. Take a jumper to sit on.

Cooking with Poo | A Bangkok Cookery Class | A Recipe for Coconut Chicken Soup

I did a cookery class with Poo.

Go on. Say it. You know you want to. I don’t mind. Go on.

“That must have been shit”.

Feel better?

Yes, I cooked with Poo. And I liked it. (Unfortunately I can’t take credit for that excellent *cough* gag. It was printed on our aprons).

Poo is the affectionate nickname for Khun Saiyuud Diwong, a long-term resident of Khlong Toey, the largest informal settlement in Bangkok. In 2007 she was cooking and serving food from her kitchen, when she met Anji Barker, an Australian, who saw her potential and convinced her to set up and run her own cookery school. Although dubious at first, low in confidence and unable to speak English, she started small and worked hard. Cooking with Poo is now one of the most popular classes in Bangkok. She teaches up to 12 people, six days a week, and employs staff to help her run it. It is often fully booked for weeks in advance.

But she wasn’t just content with helping herself and her family. Along with Anji, she also set up the charity Helping Hands, to encourage other women to build their own fair-trade micro-businesses based on their own particular skills and talents. She’s become a mentor, a role-model and an inspiration for the community she works in, and her company and charity are examples of how successful these grass-roots, community-based initiatives really can be.

You can book Cooking with Poo classes online, choosing between 6 different menus of 3 dishes each, one for each day of the week the class runs. You meet up early, at an easy to find central location, and are then taken via mini-bus to a local market, and then on to the class.

The market was the same one I visited on this tour, so I’m getting to know my way around it! Our guide pointed out different ingredients and explained their uses in Thai cooking. The wet markets in South East Asia are not for the squeamish. Brown insects are piled high on ice. Fish flip about in shallow trays of water, eels squirm next to them. Chicken feet are crammed into large glass vases. Frogs sit, tied up, still croaking, in wire covered buckets. Offal lies in big, steaming piles. Yellow, scrawny chickens spill their juices on to the floor. You’re wearing flip flops. The smells are strong. The heat doesn’t help.

Bangkok wet marketBangkok Wet Market

From there we drove to the edge of Khlong Toey, where we disembarked and walked through the settlement to the Cooking with Poo classroom. I remember thinking how neat it was! I spent three months living on the edge of Nylanda slum in Kisumu, Kenya which was very different – a complete mess with rubbish everywhere, and stinking, overflowing open drains. In Khlong Toey the narrow alleyways were lined with pots, filled with bright green leaves and pretty pink flowers. The houses themselves are colourful, painted in an array of shades. Children run and play. Yet the grubby muslin curtains hanging over the doors waft, and give glimpses of dark, cramped spaces. It was somewhere I was really pleased to have seen, but certainly not a place I would have ventured into otherwise.

Khlong Toey Informal Settlement

We cooked three dishes, all of which were fairly simple. I went on a Wednesday so these were Tom Kha Gai (coconut chicken soup), Pad Thai and Yum Som-o (pomelo salad with chicken). While I was pleased to have had a lesson in making the ubiquitous Pad Thai, it was the other two dishes I particularly enjoyed. The pomelo salad was fresh and light, the dressing a balanced combination of palm sugar, fish sauce, tamarind and chilli paste. I chatted to an expat who said that she already has Poo’s book and regularly makes this for her children, who love it!

Phad Thai at Cooking with Poo

I can’t say that I learnt a great deal at Cooking with Poo. It’s certainly not one for experienced chefs, but I liked that Poo has simplified the recipes, and made Thai food accessible to everyone. I can definitely imagine making the pomelo salad and chicken soup back in the UK.

With this in mind, here is her recipe for Tom Kha Gai. I thought at the time how perfect it would be for evenings when you come in late from work. It’s ready in minutes, and is delicious, simple and warming. The chilli continues to infuse as the soup sits in the bowl, so the last mouthful is the most potent one!

Poo’s Tom Kha Gai, Chicken Coconut Soup

Ingredients:

400g chicken

200g mushrooms (quartered)

2 cups coconut milk

1 cup water

6 tbsp fish sauce

5 slices galangal (use ginger if you can’t get hold of it)

1 green chilli, pierced with a knife

2 lemongrass stalks (sliced)

6 kaffir lime leaves (ripped up)

3 tbsp lime juice

1 bunch of coriander

Method: 

  • Place water, coconut milk, fish sauce, kaffir lime leaves, mushrooms, lemongrass, chilli and galangal in a pan. Heat until boiling.
  • Add the chicken. Leave for a few minutes, until cooked
  • Turn off the heat
  • Stir in coriander and lime juice

Cooking with Poo website, and you can buy her cookbook here.
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A Stylish and Affordable Bangkok B&B | J No. 14 | B&B Review

This B&B was the first place I stayed at in Bangkok and it still remains firmly on my favourites list.

Overview:

A converted warehouse on the other side of the Mae Nam Chao Phraya, this oh so stylish B&B, which I found on AirBnb, was decorated by the owners’ son, who has just graduated from interior design school. It’s very cool, and if I used the word funky I would use it here (I don’t. I hate the word). The welcome is very warm, and Pakasit and his wife are fantastic hosts. At £26 a night for a double, it’s fantastically good value.

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Location Location Location:

Ok, so J No. 14 is on the other side of the river from Bangkok Bangkok, BUT it’s also less than a five minute walk to the BTS (the Sky train which is incredibly useful – get a Rabbit card if you plan to stay a few days), and just one stop on this from the river boats that make their way up to Ko Ratanakosin, and the touristy sights. Because of this I actually found it one of the most convenient places to stay. The neighbourhood, Khlong San, is mainly residential and there are some lovely simple food stops nearby serving up tom yam and other noodle dishes. The B&B itself is down a little alley leading off a slightly larger alley, so very quiet!

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Come on in:

The full height atrium is like a botanist’s greenhouse! Light pours in from the skylights, and the whole area is crammed with exotic plants and tables covered in curios including frames filled with dried butterflies, piles of antique books and old typewriters. There’s mustard velvet covered antique chairs, a dark wooden piano, and the skull of some poor creature. You could spend hours just looking at it all. It’s been incredibly well put together, and the perfect contrast to the industrial shell it all occupies. I loved it.

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This is your room:

The rooms are altogether simpler affairs, but no worse off for that. Mine was massive with an iron bed against a bare-brick wall, a leather and metal settee, and a gorgeous dark wood bureau. A thick red rug on the floor added a touch of cosiness, as did the full length white muslin drapes at the window (which looked out at a bare wall…) It felt spartan, but stylishly so, like a New York loft. The air-con was powerful and the wi-fi worked exceptionally well.

Bedtime:

With the air-con on full blast I snuggled up and slept ridiculously well at J No. 14. It’s very quiet, not what I was expecting in Bangkok! The bed was large and comfy, although a bed side table on the other side would have been appreciated, as would a lamp or some sort of softer lighting. Leaving in the morning was like going from the Arctic to the jungle in the space of a threshold!

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Getting clean:

No complaints. The bathroom was fully functional with a hot powerful shower, plenty of space to put my wash bags and a decent enough sized sink.

How do you like your eggs in the morning?

The breakfast was good! Definitely the best I’ve had at this price-range! Although I was offered an alternative, I had the same baked eggs on all three mornings. Served in a cast iron skilet, they were accompanied by tomatoes, herbs and thinly sliced sausage, and wonder of all wonder, wholemeal bread! The coffee wasn’t fantastic, but as I’ve had no better at many far more expensive establishments, I’ll let them off!

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Pakasit and his wife, I’m so sorry I can’t remember her name.

Hell is other people. Apparently.

The design attracts a young crowd, and I chatted to plenty of people. It’s a sociable place.

Loves:

The design, and attention to detail. That everything works and it’s a very easy place to stay. The owners, who are so helpful without being overbearing. The proximity to the BTS.

Niggles:

That there was no soft lighting in my room. That’s pretty much it!

Best for:

Anyone who wants to stay somewhere a bit different in Bangkok. It’s really excellent value, especially given what you get. Perfect for people who are tiring of same same guesthouse rooms!

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Final Verdict:

This Bangkok B&B is a fantastic find, and one that I can’t recommend highly enough. They’ve only been open a few months, I really hope they do well.

The Damage:

£26 a night on Airbnb for a double.

Book here: AirBnB page

Not quite for you? No worries, I’ve stayed in quite a few different places and reviews will be coming soon. In the meantime if you want any suggestions then please feel free to comment or message me.

Cycling into Bangkok’s Jungle | A bike tour with ABC Amazing Bangkok Cyclist

Why is it when you tell a guide you are terrified of snakes at the beginning of a tour, and they later point a big crate of them out to you, they look surprised when you start crying and shaking?

Seriously?

I was on a bike tour, and we were cycling down a tiny alleyway in an informal settlement under a railway track, when my guide stopped beside a brick box with an iron grate on top. “I think I’ve been too nice. Have a look at those cute kitties in there”.

NO NO NO.

It was full of snakes. Red, glistening, squirming snakes. As soon as I realised what I was seeing I scrambled off my bike, threw it against the other side of the house and ran down the street. Crying. And possibly screaming.

I’m terrified of them, in a completely irrational sort of way. I might not like rats, or spiders, or weird jelly-like substances, but I can rationalise them. I can tell myself they’re not going to hurt me and be fine. I can’t do that with snakes. It doesn’t matter that they were securely contained within the brick box, I still had a massive rush of adrenaline, and once that happens there’s not much I can do to stop the crying and shaking.

At least on this occasion there were actual snakes. I’ve run away screaming from a woven bamboo basket filled with… fish…. before; having caught one glance of shimmering flesh and jumped to the wrong conclusion. I’ve also done the same with a baby. Yep. I ran away screaming from a baby and her (rather confused) mother in India. The mother had the baby in her arms, wrapped in a shawl, and when the baby reached her arm up it pushed the shawl and looked like, ok, looked ever so slightly like, a snake. Joe had a hard time trying to explain to the poor woman why I had been so scared.

I later asked our guide why he had pointed them out to me. He said he thought I was joking. WHY would I joke about something like that?

Anyway….

This was a small lowlight on an otherwise fantastic cycle tour with ABC Amazing Bangkok Cyclist. And our guide, T (a nickname obviously, his real one is hard to pronounce, even harder to spell), was actually completely lovely. By the end I didn’t even care that he had pointed out snakes to me. I loved him.

Bangkok doesn’t have much green space within the main city perimeter; there is just one small park, Lumphini. Yet just the other side of the Mae Nam Chao Phraya is Bang Kra Jao, Bangkok’s ‘green lung’. Appearing as just a blank space on most maps, it’s an area of fecund, wild jungle that has someone managed to escape the developers. I can think of no other city in the world to have such an area of natural, untouched beauty so close to its centre. While only 10% or so of it is actually protected land, visits from the Royal Family (who are very much reveered here) have generated support in keeping it free from developers. Yet the land is lived on, mainly by people descended from the Mon tribe, workers who came to find jobs in Bangkok many years ago, and unable to reverted to what they knew: farming.

It was to Bang Kra Jao that we cycled, taking a rather circulatory route through some other parts of the city. It’s ABC Amazing Bangkok Cycling’s Weekend Tour, and costs 2400 bhat per person. I was joined by two Danish couples, one of whom had just got engaged! It was all very exciting.

We began by cycling along the main road (a slightly hairy experience, but T was a great guide), before turning off and winding our way over to Little China, an area that is now populated mostly by Thai families. The houses are small, and often lived in by two or three families. Few have kitchens. T explained to us that this is why street food is so popular cheap and good: many people eat all their meals from vendors, and if you can produce consistently tasty food then you can make a good living from it. He also said that homes aren’t that important to Thai people, or at least anything beyond having one isn’t. The weather is so good that most Thai don’t spend much time actually at home, and they never invite people over either. They meet up in the street or at a cafe. This led to an interesting discussion amongst the six of us, with the Danish saying that as they are forced to spend so much time inside by the climate, making their homes somewhere nice to spend time is important to them.

From there we wove our way through the informal settlement. It was fun riding, even if some of the turns were rather narrow. Plenty of people smiled and waved at us as we past, and I thought that despite being a ‘slum’ (a word I don’t really like to use) it was very well taken care of, and surprisingly neat. I liked the little baskets of flowers hanging from the side of the houses. T said that many people actually choose to live here as they don’t have to pay rent or services, but it is not a nice area to bring up children. The snakes in the box had all been found in the settlement, mostly under beds, and are put there before being released back into the wild. T then told us we were about to cross a bridge over a part of the canal that looks like Venice. I wasn’t convinced.

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Bangkok’s answer to Venice. Apparently.

From there we boarded a boat to cross the river.

Once on the other side we entered the jungle, and began riding along thin concrete paths, raised off the jungle floor. I was there just a month or so before the rain, and much of the vegetation was browning around the edges, tatty and tired looking. Yet you could still see the abundance and variety of vegetation. There were vines, tumbling down from above; palm trees, with bulging roots pushing out of the damp earth; and banana, coconut and mango trees, heavy with fruit. It felt very wild, and if it wasn’t for the path, completely unpenetrable. It is the paths that make the area habitable – replacements from the original weather-worn wooden ones that used to criss-cross the area. I was surprised at how many houses we came across, and when we cycled into the market, how much of a community existed there.

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Just before the market we pulled over at a gorgeous temple, the bright red and gold clashing with all the green. It was odd to see something so decorative, and so obviously designed, within the randomness of the jungle.

As we explored the market, T bought us snacks to share. Many were street food dishes that aren’t readily available in Bangkok itself. We ate chewy shrimp cakes, covered in sweet chilli and pickled cucumber; unwrapped baked banana leaves to reveal the rice, coconut and banana filling, which you then roll like a fruit roll-up; piled tamarind jam and deep fried onions and garlic into bitter beetle leaves to then be eaten whole; and carefully tucked into quickly fried quails’ eggs.

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Jungle market street food

After all that amazing food, lunch was a little bit of a disappointment – a very average pad thai. However, as it was about 3pm by this time we all tucked in! As we ate we discussed Bangkok, and how it leads the way in the country. It’s a very open, accepting city, and somewhere anyone can feel comfortable being themselves. As such it attracts trans and homo sexuals from all over the country, and people in unconventional relationships. T also said something that made me a feel a bit guilty for having written here before about Thai girl / Western men relationships – he said men come here looking for love and companionship, and that is what they find. And they often end up staying here as they are not judged for having done so, as they would be in their home country. I think perhaps I’ve been jumping to conclusions somewhat.

It was then time to head for home, and I was disappointed that the day was to be over. The cycling had been relatively easy – only about 24km over the course of the day with frequent stops and I could have cycled on. The city bikes we used were great, very comfy, and all working perfectly. And, as I’ve said, our guide T really was fantastic. He was full of useful information, and just a joy to be around – funny, and warm, and great at getting us all to relax and interact with each other. As I’ve said before, I am most definitely a city person, but this was a slice of real jungle I can’t wait to experience again. Especially as I ended the day, back in the city, with a rather delicious slice of coconut cake.

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A couple of homestays and guesthouses are opening up in Bang Kra Jao, and if I had the time I would love to stay in one! Bangkok Tree House especially looks great. It would definitely be an unusual Bangkok experience!

Apologies for the lack of photographs in this post – I was concentrating too much on cycling to take many!